Sunday, January 4, 2009

a word of caution, i love my husband

this one may get a little sappy. if you are not interested in me gushing about my husband, stop reading now.

this past week and a half has been one of the best. we did not do anything very special. in fact, we hardly left the house. but, for the first time since becoming a mother, i had a vacation. brent always gets the week off between christmas and new years, which is a huge blessing. but this year, we didn't make any plans. we ended up just being a family. and normally, that would mean cabin fever and yelling and screaming after the first 36 hours. but the opposite happened. i know part of the reason is that santa brought us a wii, but i think it is mostly because brent did everything, everything while he was home. i haven't cooked a meal, folded laundry, or set a table for almost two weeks. i think this demonstrates a few things.
one- my husband loves me and gets me. even though when i look at it, i realize that i took total advantage of his kindness and i am truly just lazy, he never made me feel bad about it. he let me enjoy the break.
two- i married a terrific man who not only is a fantastic provider, he is also an amazing father and, forgive the expression, homemaker. whenever i leave the kids with him, i never worry that they will eat fruit roll ups for dinner and sleep with bubble gum in their hair. i know that they will be fed a nutritious meal (which is probably tastier than something i would make), go to bed clean, and they will have a blast with their dad. my boys are so lucky. and my future daughters-in-law are so lucky. they will marry men who will have had brent as an example of how to treat their wives and care for their homes. what a blessing. (and camma, i know i have you to thank for much of what brent can do.)
three- i need to step up my game. now that life is starting up again its time for me to really pull my weight around here. i need to show brent the same kind of love and service he has shown me these past two weeks.

3 comments:

John Hart said...

Thanks a lot, Brent.
I swear I did the fruit roll up thing for dinner only one time.

John

Emily Petty said...

I loved catching up on all your posts - what a nice husband. I think the paint looks awesome. We went to Italy right after Christmas and talked to David's family in church on Sunday. He said they're trying to persuade you guys to come visit - let me know if you do!

pieofthemonth said...

imagine if you grew up as a girl in a house like that (our dad was equally awesome) and then had the task of finding some man to marry that was as amazing as your dad and brothers are! It's basically impossible, let me tell you.
they set the bar PRETTY high...

I'm very proud of the men in my family. :)